even some of them telling me they have prepared the ang pow for my wedding,
I really wanna say Thank you for those have prepared the Ang POw , pls makesure its will appreciate but not depreciate untill my big day come, haha...
Anyway, when i asked why i have been aimed to be the one who should get married?They have give me the answers as below,
' You have been with him for so many years.., its time to get married'
'He is a good guy, your parents like him and accept him'
'He have everything prepared for you, he just waitting you to say yes.."
some even say, 'aiya, you already reach the age that can GET MARRIED'
Wow.....from all the answer i have, its seems like marriage is just because that you have been in the relationship too many years, its time to get it done, its consider as a task to be completed?
and because age is growing, so we have to get it done in the common age that other people getting married...
Well, i have different definition of marriage..
I always think that marriage is when two persons really get ready to share each others life, when two person intend to grow up together in their life journey, they willing to bear, to face and enjoy whatever come to them, and they want to do it together and do it happily.
He or she should be someone who really accept by your heart, and feel so safe and warm to have him or her in your life.
That is no what call right time in this matter, its all about fate and the feeling that you have.
Anyway, it is my own perception, you all might not understand it as the way i not understand your thinking of marriage as well.
if i can find him, someone who really can give me the happiness that i want to,
i willing to be his only little woman, to build up the happy family with him,
and i will declare i am going to get married at the time... :)
